Treat everyone with kindness

If you want to know how others treat you, the best starting place is to look at how you treat others.

如果你想知道其他人如何对待你，最好的起点是看你如何对待别人。

And if you don't like the way you're treated, there's only one course of action—to change your own behavior, because you can't change anyone else's.

如果你不喜欢别人对待你的方式，只有改变自己行为这一个行动路线，因为你不能改变别人。

Relationships function like a mirror--eventually that change will reflect back onto how you are treated.

人际关系交往就像一面镜子，最终你对待别人这个改变会映射到别人怎么对待你。

Here are nine important principles to remember about how to treat others:

这里5项关于如何对待别人的重要原则需要铭记：

1. Instead of judging people by their past, stand by them and help them build their future.

与其通过过去评价别人，不如与他们肩并肩帮助他们建立未来。

2. Listen with curiosity, speak with candor, and act with integrity.

带着好奇倾听，坦白地讲话并正直地行动。

3. Treat everyone with kindness--not because they are kindhearted, but because you are.

友善地对待每一个人，并非因为他们心地善良，而是因为你是这样的人。

4. Don't try to make yourself great by making someone else look small.

 不要试图使别人渺小来成就自己的伟大。

5. Remember, everyone has a story.

记住，每人都有故事。